As I dig deep and look into who I really am, I look into who I invest my time with and how they have moved me in what I have called Project Inspiration. I wanted to take this time to tell you how my best friend, Matt Hoglund has inspired me and been a part of my life evolution. You probably have one of these: the talk-for-hours-yoga-loving-possibility-seeking-share-your-goals-and-dreams-with-brutally-honest-and-well-dressed best friend. Let’s compare notes.
I remember that sunny day you walked through the glass double doors at lululemon athletica Santa Monica and thinking, "Hmph, how did this guy get the job I applied for?". Ego talking. Recurring theme, I am aware. From our shared yoga dates to work drama, our amazing coffee evenings or late night wine chats, match.com winks to cleaning out my closet and sharing possibilities, I am so happy you got the job and walked into my life that day.
What I wanted to let you know is that who you are, has and continues to shape who I am every day.
You, Matt, are possibility every day. I envision when you wake up there is an inspirational book of quotes next to your bathroom sink to read while teeth brushing, you have a daily declaration on your mirror every morning, and you leave the house standing upright and walking with an air of "today is the day to be great". And I envision this because when I speak to you via phone, you ooze with greatness. I am inspired by your mentality, your ability to believe in yourself and who you choose to be each day. And, I believe in you.
Matt, you look good. And I mean really good. Your fashion sense is unreal and you have no qualms sharing what not to wear. As I recall, you saved me from the insanity that was packing to move from LA to Chicago by shipping out 3 large black gallon garbage bags to goodwill. It was not the sheer and utter honesty when you held up the pink and black polka dotted skirt that was size 2 and you looked at me like "that is never going to happen every again"; what it really was: is who are you are. We had a great time cleaning out my closet, we had a great time making fun of my fashion sense and you allowed space in my life. Space that was not there before. I am inspired by the space you allow people by being you.
Your decision to leave a job to create one that would fulfill all areas of your life is inspiring. You choose possibility over fear and that in itself is a rare gift. Go ahead, check him out: www.matthoglund.com. You're not going to live a mediocre life and neither am I. Knowing we are in it together keeps me excited - and calling you every other day for accountability. Thanks for picking up the phone.
The ability to be open and patient definitely allows you a leg up. A long leg up. You thrive on feedback to be better, you listen listen listen then ask questions and you allow yourself and others time with no judgment. I yearn to write ‘envious’ – however, that is not the correct word. I am inspired by you as a great leader in my life. I continuously work on patience and listening and you are such a guiding light.
Lastly, I will not leave out our one night of amazing dance moves at Circle Bar. There it comes up again – that fearless movement, literally. We showed that dance floor and Santa Monica community who was boss that night. And to me, that sums up how you live your life. Create it, show them who is boss and dance because you can. So inspiring and I will continue to shake my groove thing with you.
Thank you Matty for going against the grain, having a different conversation and beautiful worldview, and for teaching me everyday to be a great human being. The experiences I have from our friendship are ones that I am forever grateful. I will continue to be a name that shows up on your caller id, and I look forward to every encounter; as every time I am in a different and greater space than I was before we connected.
As you continue to rock in this life, keep being who you are. And I promise that I will do the same.